This time, Mojofist talked to Noemi, a European now living in Southern California. She enjoys reading philosophy and other nonfiction books. She credits a heavy reading habit with helping to improve her English and describes herself as “eager to learn new subjects.” Noemi works as a makeup artist in the entertainment industry and is also a model and actress. Stylelife: … Read More
Rescuing Canned Material
The Old Standbys are Successful for a Reason It’s the same old story, but I don’t want to be rude. So I let the guy continue. “I don’t wanna use canned material,” he says. Then he trots out the usual justifications. It just doesn’t feel right. It’s not his style. It won’t work because it won’t be congruent. He wants … Read More
The Values of Finance While Dating
Money remains an odd topic in our society. As a culture, we idolize millionaires and billionaires, we watch shows like MTV’s Cribs and VH1’s The Fabulous Life, and all the Hollywood reality shows, and we memorize intricate details of salary cap hits for the number one draft pick’s contract. But in spite of our financial obsession, money is still a … Read More
Play the Point System for Socializing Fun
In the initial stages, after the opener, your main goal is to hold interest while building value and attraction. To do this we have a few notable techniques at our disposal disqualifiers, DHVs, playful games and challenges. Even with this knowledge it can still be confusing to memorize a bunch of different routines and their uses. That is why I … Read More
Proving Popular: The Scoop on Social Proof and Value
Meeting women is a game of value. The more value you can acquire the easier the game becomes. Value can come in a number of different forms, such as money, worldliness, status, and many more. One form of value called social proof is gained from the people you know and the crowd that surrounds you. To understand social proof, imagine … Read More
Stylelife Girl: Afton
This time around, we sent The Sneak to chat with Afton, a recent college graduate with an emphasis in textile design. As her day job, she works as a street fundraiser. So while you stress over walking up to a woman and saying hello, she’s stressing about walking up to a woman, saying hello, and actually getting a credit … Read More
Bust Through Your Calibration Sticking Point: A Fun Exercise
Calibration is a major sticking point for many people. It can be a real challenge because it’s something that you’re always doing while in the field. You never calibrate for a moment, and then forget all about it while you focus on something else. It’s like a basketball player who needs to always be aware of the ball, whether he’s … Read More
The Most Comprehensive List of Sticking Points: Is Your Dating Problem on Here?
The Stylelife coaching team recently worked with our student body to conduct a thorough examination of the sticking points that hold people back in the field. If you’re new to the area of social artistry, a “sticking point” is a hurdle or obstacle, that you just can’t seem to move beyond. Everyone has one, even the best pickup artists in … Read More
Using Fashion to Start Conversations with Women
The bottom line with fashion is that women love it. Get them talking about fashion and you will spark a conversation that excites them and allows you the opportunity to DHV. There are countless options for using fashion, both yours and theirs, as openers. If you want women to open you for being stylish then basic dress sense is a … Read More
Don't Get Stuck in Conversation
Most men who have problems thinking they will “run out of material” with women actually have a deeper problem. Itʼs not that they donʼt have much to say, but rather that they simply havenʼt spoken to many people. Usually they just talk to very close friends, and when they do itʼs about topics that are so individualistic (computers, games, being … Read More