Most men who have problems thinking they will “run out of material” with women actually have a deeper problem. Itʼs not that they donʼt have much to say, but rather that they simply havenʼt spoken to many people. Usually they just talk to very close friends, and when they do itʼs about topics
that are so individualistic (computers, games, being bored, etc.) that they have no clue as to what goes on outside their small universe.

To be able to communicate better we need to absorb more of what life has to offer besides merely concentrating on pick-up and seduction. Otherwise, we become “pickup zombies” whose lives cannot function outside of the seduction frame, and this will reveal itself in our communication. Or, lack thereof. To avoid that trap, and to make conversations flow more naturally, here are some things for you to try:

1. Talk randomly to about 10 people each day. You should especially include strangers that you donʼt have a reason to be attracted to. A policeman,
the guy who makes your coffee, somebody in line at the bank. If you canʼt have a normal, casual, non-intended conversation with just about anybody why would you do better with a beautiful woman? Donʼt just think, “I can already do this.” Make speaking to random people a habit.

2. Make a list of about 10 really bad things that have happened to you. Then, look for humorous ways in which you can say there was a good thing about it. For example: “One time I was served dog meat while traveling. When I found out what I just ate, I was sick for one week straight. However after that I feel like I have a closer connection to my dog at home!” The idea is to develop a sense of twisting things around in a fun way to keep a woman interested in your life experiences with optimism, humor and wit.

3. Learn and memorize random facts about life, psychology, nature, science, theories about the unknown, etc. and come up with implications of your own on how these apply to present life. No knowledge is useless. This will give you elements to spice up conversations and show yourself as a person
that can make almost poetic connections between life and immediate reality. If you can do that, many times a woman will infer you are a person she
can make a connection with.