Letter to the PUA Community From The Desk of Neil Strauss Malibu, California Thursday January 28, 2016 From The Desk of Neil Strauss, Almost ten years ago, after reading The Game, a brilliant programmer living in San Francisco contacted me and asked if I was interested in helping people who’d read the book. I met … Read More
So Easy My Mother Could Do It
So, my mother has been asking random strangers whether they floss before they brush. Like dozens of them. And so far, no one has “busted” her on it, even though this opener has been all over television, in books, and on the Internet. It’s funny because she really wants to know the answer. She’s been asking waitresses, neighbors, and even … Read More
Crappy Car, Awful Job, Great Seducer
Have you ever wondered if it’s possible to attract romantic partners if you don’t have much money? It certainly is. Let’s examine some of the most common worries one at a time: IF YOU THINK YOUR JOB SUCKS Every job in this world serves an important purpose. In my life, before I taught seduction, I cleaned toilets. It’s not glamorous, but if nobody had that … Read More
Quick Confidence Boosters for Making Approaches
There’s this trick the coaches and I have learned over the past few years of teaching bootcamps that can boost your confidence just enough to get you approaching. This trick, if done right before you walk into a set, can give you a boost of confidence that will get you talking to beautiful women. The best thing about this trick … Read More
How to Make the Most of Learning from a PUA
How to Turbo Charge Your Transformation at the Seduction Master Class One of the most effective methods for learning to pick up women, going all the way back to the earliest days of the seduction community has always been the conference. PUA conferences can be effective and over the course of our existence, hundreds of men (and a number of women … Read More
Play the Point System for Socializing Fun
In the initial stages, after the opener, your main goal is to hold interest while building value and attraction. To do this we have a few notable techniques at our disposal disqualifiers, DHVs, playful games and challenges. Even with this knowledge it can still be confusing to memorize a bunch of different routines and their uses. That is why I … Read More
Do PUA Techniques Really Work? Science has the answer.
Now and then we get emails from guys who start reading about PUAs and seduction. They look at the concepts of openers, DHVs and other PUA techniques with a bit of skepticism. “Does this stuff really work? I mean … seriously?” Science proves it does. Research conducted by scholars at the University of Oxford and Zagreb was published in the … Read More
Stylelife Conference 2013: Day One in the Books
A Safe Place Like No Other In this culture, it’s rare for men to share their vulnerabilities. In the locker room, around the water cooler, and at the local bar, you’re simply not supposed to reveal anything deep or possibly painful about yourself. Even amongst friends. But certainly not to strangers. However, Stylelife conferences aren’t like any other gathering. Instead … Read More
DHV – "The Game of Snaps"
adapted as a DHV by Topher and The Sneak For the longest time this game has been my secret routine. I’ve used it more times than I can remember to attract and challenge women. You can’t do it alone, but because of its value I ask that you only teach it to one other person. Choose the most trusted of … Read More
How to Beat Your Approach Anxiety
Today your first PICK-UP ARTIST FACE-OFF MISSION stars – open 7 women and email your FIELD REPORT to me, [email protected], by Monday at 12:00am PST! If you have anxiety about approaching one woman much less 7 in a row you need to watch Stylelife coach The Sneak’s “point of no return” trick to beating your approach anxiety for good… Stylelife … Read More