The Stylelife coaching team recently worked with our student body to conduct a thorough examination of the sticking points that hold people back in the field. If you’re new to the area of social artistry, a “sticking point” is a hurdle or obstacle, that you just can’t seem to move beyond. Everyone has one, even the best pickup artists in … Read More
Don't Get Stuck in Conversation
Most men who have problems thinking they will “run out of material” with women actually have a deeper problem. Itʼs not that they donʼt have much to say, but rather that they simply havenʼt spoken to many people. Usually they just talk to very close friends, and when they do itʼs about topics that are so individualistic (computers, games, being … Read More
2 Tips on Humor and Interacting with Women
Earlier this week, we looked at the cliche of women wanting a man with a sense of humor. But just because it’s been well-proven that females don’t flock to comedians, that doesn’t mean that laughter has no place in socializing. Far from it, in fact. Stylelife counts a number of trained comedians amongst our midst, so we turned to The … Read More
How Nerd Hobbies Can Help Attract Women
Featured on today’s main page over at Salon, an article entitled “All I needed to know about life I learned from ‘Dungeons & Dragons’” brought about a ton of smiles at the Stylelife office. In this piece, Ethan Gilsdorf recounts the life lessons he absorbed while slaying beasts and casting spells in the game. And that very night, longtime Stylelife … Read More
5 Keys to Increasing Attraction in Your Relationships
Take a moment to picture yourself with the following woman… She has a radiant smile. She engages you in fun banter. The two of you to laugh together with ease. When you want to go out to a movie, concert, or some other form of entertainment, you immediately think of going with her. You love sharing experiences with this woman. … Read More
Truth or Dare, How to Use it with Women
There’s a saying amongst pickup artists that all the things that were fun when you were a kid, can now be fun to do in a social setting as an adult. The most childish games and jokes can be hilarious and enormously effective if you employ them in the right way as you interact with women. A perfect example of … Read More
Occupation Overhaul
It’s a lucky few who get to work the job of their dreams. Many occupations we hold are stepping stones or speed bumps along the path to the job of our dreams. Unfortunately, some may be boring, others tedious, but we’ve all had to deal with them. Certainly, being 21, in college, and working at a local Starbucks is not … Read More
Becoming Just Friends
Emma writes… For a while I secretly believed the friend zone was this fictitious state of mind that guys get into when they are too afraid to make a move. In the dreaded friend zone, I offered three choices: 1) Walk away. 2) Be bold and speak your mind. 3) Stay stagnant friends and live in mediocrity. Keep in mind … Read More
Standout Style
Emma writes: Style, like religion and politics, can be ingrained in us from an early age. The dads who played golf raise boys who wear khakis, Polos and Sperry Topsiders. The fashionista mom has a fashionista daughter or son or both. The musically inclined father doesn’t place importance on haircuts, and thus, raises Slash’s doppelganger. Hippie moms have Birkenstock-wearing young. … Read More
What Could Have Been?
Emma writes: Loving someone who doesn’t feel the same way sucks. I don’t need a lengthy explanation of the amount it sucks or all the different ways in which unequal love sucks. We all know that it does. What doesn’t kill us makes us stronger and blah, blah, blah. Yep, still sucks. What’s even worse though is living in perpetual … Read More