The System of Selecting a Proper Suit

Casual Friday’s took the world too far into the slovenly direction. So the pendulum began to swing back to more buttoned up, more polished ways of dress. Plus, pop culture characters like Barney Stinson in How I Met Your Mother and Jacob Palmer in Crazy Stupid Love demonstrated just how sexy a suit can be when worn properly. But many … Read More

Cheat Sheet for you to print out

Neil might be married now, but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t use Game anymore. Any guy who thinks otherwise is clearly not married. In fact, one of the most important things that I’ve learned during my time in the Game is that it applies to just about every human aspect of human social interaction. However, there’s a structure involved. When … Read More

Eat Sexy

The Social Arts and Aphrodisiacs This Tokyo Tea is ‘da bomb’! Would you like to try a sip?” I offered. Mmm. Yummy!” She cooed after sharing my beverage. It was the first indicator that she was happy to cooperate with my sensual escapades, and that she trusted me to not have cooties. It was on. During our first meal together, … Read More

Don't Be Average on a Dinner Date

Creativity and Good Conversation are the Keys to a Successful Dinner Date. Be the Exception. A social artist needs to be the exception at all times. He needs to be able to think outside the box and envision creative and exciting ways to show a woman that he stands apart from the crowd, but there are some dates, such as … Read More

Style's Ultimate Training Program Opens Today

What if you had all the tools you needed to give you the results you desire most and what if Neil Strauss A.K.A. Style was coaching you himself? What if he gave you access to all his methods and techniques on your computer, over the phone, and even in person? Style’s Ultimate Training Program is guaranteed to create real and … Read More

How Science Helps You Avoid Flakes

The science of human interaction is a massive topic. And it generates tons of discussion. Before we go into to what you can do to avoid flaking, here’s an email we received from Larry: “As a scientist who likes your stuff, I have to say that you are oversimplifying with 4 neurotransmitters,” Larry wrote. “You need to be thinking about … Read More

The Science of a First Kiss

Attraction is Scientifically Based and Facilitated: A Multi-Part Series Exploring the Connections Between the Lab and the Real World Understanding the science behind attracting women is great. In fact, it’s where you need to begin when it comes to meeting women. However, you want to meet more women because you’re looking for something more than just good conversation. It is … Read More

Spice Up Your Interactions with the Love Reading Routine

The term cold reading is defined by Wikipedia as, ‘a technique used to convince another person that the reader knows much more about a subject than he actually does.’ There are several methods that a social artist can implement to cold read a woman in the field. The easiest method, and the one requiring the least amount of tools or … Read More

Avoid These 4 Mindsets to Improve Your Social Success

You know how there is that break-up cliche that says, “It’s not you, it’s me”? Most of the time, that’s nonsense. But in some instances with dating, the problem is, indeed you. If you’re not getting the social results you want, examine your mindset and attitudes to see if you’re falling into any of these 4 negative frames of references. … Read More

Debate: Is it a Good Idea to Delete Your Dating Apps?

Our recent article detailing 4 Reasons to Delete Your Dating Apps generated a huge amount of email commentary. Some readers agreed with the advice. Others, not so much. Healthy, constructive debate is always a good thing at Stylelife. During our upcoming seduction master class, Style will tell students over and over again that we’re not concerned with dogma, with marking … Read More