Sharing Vs Oversharing – First Date Fodder

Authenticity is a beautiful thing – especially in men. Women in general are attracted to men who are themselves. No one likes a sugar coater, liar, or hider. Tell us what gets you out of bed in the morning. Revel in your passions. We want to know about you, or we wouldn’t have said yes. Just don’t tell us everything. … Read More

Something Quite Sexy

Before I officially accepted the offer to write for the legendary Neil Strauss’ brainchild Stylelife, I was afraid. I was afraid that it had been too long since I’d written about relationships to powerfully share. I was afraid that what I had to say   would be idiotic and ill-received. I worried about coming off too bossy, too instructional, too girly, … Read More

Get Ready for 2013

As 2012 comes to a close, you have the perfect opportunity to reflect on your past year and set goals for the one to come. Looking back over the year, think about what went well for you? What are some areas you would like to improve? Looking forward to 2013, what are some things you’d like to achieve or accomplish? … Read More

Radical immersion

A number of writers, reality show participants, journalists, and general self-experimenters seem to be making radical immersions into a particular community or task. This guy decides to wear nothing but denim for the next twelve months. That guy plans to eat nothing but broccoli for a year. And so forth. These immersive transformations can be very illuminating even for people … Read More


Banter is playful teasing, a way to engage light fun conversation and disqualify the girl you’re talking to in order to disarm her. It shows you’re not going to chase her and you’re just there to have fun. Banter is working efficiently when you’re teasing each other in a fun back and forth exchange. Banter serves the purpose of getting her … Read More

Compatibility test: Is she girlfriend material?

Have you ever been with someone who seemed ideal in the beginning of your relationship and then later—sometimes much later—you realized were definitely not meant to be together? Several years ago I was in a long-term relationship with a woman I was convinced was my soul mate. I told anyone who would listen that she was “the one.” We laughed … Read More

How to Keep the Sex Hot in a Long-Term Relationship

You mastered the Game and got the girl. You went out, had a good time, maybe you spent the night. Fast forward a year or two into a long-term relationship. How do you keep the spark alive? How do you keep the sex hot? It’s a different game and we’ll help you to master it as well. Many guys settle … Read More

Halloween Tips

As promised, here are some Halloween Seduction Tips from our top coaches Evolve and the Sneak: ——————————————————————————– 3 Tips to Getting the Ghoul, erm, Girl, on Halloween: ——————————————————————————– 1. Choose your costume wisely. Halloween allows you to be whatever you want for one night. If you’re just learning to be a seductive person, then you should take this opportunity to … Read More

Fashion Do's and Dont's

It’s always useful to review some basic fashion “Do’s” and “Don’ts.” Today, we’ll cover what you should do. Next article, we’ll look at the things to avoid. Let’s get right into those fashion “Do’s”: 1) Do match your accessories. When it comes to watches, belt buckles, necklaces, rings, and all other jewelry, you generally have two main options, gold or … Read More