You know how there is that break-up cliche that says, “It’s not you, it’s me”? Most of the time, that’s nonsense. But in some instances with dating, the problem is, indeed you. If you’re not getting the social results you want, examine your mindset and attitudes to see if you’re falling into any of these 4 negative frames of references. … Read More
Time is Running Out to Register for Master Class
Limited Seats Remain for Style’s First Ever Seduction Master Class This is the final week, after which Seduction Master Class tickets prices escalate quickly. The BIG event will be going down in two weeks and we’ve got only 17 tickets left. We are about to send out an email to hundreds of thousands of people. So, get your ticket today, … Read More
Debate: Is it a Good Idea to Delete Your Dating Apps?
Our recent article detailing 4 Reasons to Delete Your Dating Apps generated a huge amount of email commentary. Some readers agreed with the advice. Others, not so much. Healthy, constructive debate is always a good thing at Stylelife. During our upcoming seduction master class, Style will tell students over and over again that we’re not concerned with dogma, with marking … Read More
4 Reasons to Delete Your Dating App
Technology is Great, But an Ineffective Way to Meet Women Emma writes… In general, I think dating apps are an impersonal, pointless waste of time. I was recently at a concert with a friend. I looked over to see if she was enjoying the show, and she was on Tinder scrolling through a list of guys so quickly I couldn’t … Read More
Change Up the Conversation with The Switch Technique
Beautiful women are subjected to the same conversations over and over again. An unimaginative discussion follows well-worn paths of social convention. Most of those pathways are based on agreeing with whatever the woman says. Here’s an example of a traditional interaction. Her: I love rock music. Him: I do to! Aren’t the Eagles of Death Metal great? In this passage, … Read More
3 Tips for Busting Sticking Points
Sticking points are places in your game where you’re having trouble. It might be the opener, going for the kiss, or getting a date to stick instead of flake. Whatever yours is, you can bust it. These tips will guide your way: 1. Recognize that most of the time the answer is just more practice. A lot of guys only … Read More
The Seductive Checklist
There are a number of actions you can do to become more seductive. These tips are based on a lesson plan called “Non-Interactive Attraction Game” that The Sneak developed for our bootcamps (such as the events coming up in San Francisco, Los Angeles, and others. These things make you more attractive and they happen before you even interact with a … Read More
How to Get to Know a Woman Better: Themes for Conversational Flexibility
Some successful social artists prefer to think more in terms of “themes” than routines as that provides a tremendous amount of conversational flexibility. Thing is, many guys talk about the wrong themes. So, let’s look at how to lead her into a conversation about relationships – an all-time favorite female topic. Let’s say you’re talking fluff and you want to … Read More
Making the Transition
How to Establish a Strong Foundation for Your Relatinship It was a beautiful moment, the highlight of a great year, when she looked at me and said “Yes, I would love to be your girlfriend.” It was also a terrifying moment. As a social artist who had been immersed in the thrill of the chase and the grip of uncertainty … Read More
Picking Up Your Career: Social Arts in the Workplace
The economy shattered Hollywood. Screenwriters exited their cubicles and set their laptops to hibernate indefinitely. Television shows halted production which left everyone out of work from the food caterers to the production assistants. After working three years at a top talent agency, I was laid off. I was lost, scared, and surprisingly excited. I was handed the job straight out … Read More