“Kino Escalation” is an often discussed and important concept of the dating and attraction community, and there really is a right way and a wrong way when it comes to touching. This article will help you avoid the bad touch and charm the women you desire into a deep sensual connection.

Connecting by Touching Her The Right Way

Ask yourself this question constantly while you are with your girl:

“In what ways would I be touching her and would I expect her to be touching me if she were my girlfriend RIGHT NOW?”

Boom.

That’s it. Talk, talk, talk, blah, blah, blah, whatever, back-and-forth, friendly, friendly, friendly…it is all important, but when that first sensual kino is accepted and reciprocated you know you have hit a critical moment.

It’s game on.

Examples:

1. Upper-arm squeezes. Insert them at exclamation pointsin your speech or at punch lines of jokes.

2. Backrubs. Try slipping them into exaggerated role plays. She says “My boss sucks,” you respond “Oh, I’m so sorry.” Then act like her dog died and add a back rub.

3. Your hand on her knee. In the car you can put your hand on the center console so it’s barely touching her knee. Use knee squeezes at emphatic expressions in your conversation. Constant hand on knee is quite a forward but effective technique. Regular riders miss it when it’s not there. They may take your hand and put it on their knee!

4. Constant seated contact. If there is a bench or other suitable seat, sit next to her and touch hips or knees or shoulders. See if she backs off or presses in.

5. Hands. Find her hand out on a table or surface. Place your hand nonchalantly or accidentally next to hers just barely touching, or even stronger with your pinky resting on hers, just half an inch. If she doesn’t pull away, BINGO! Green light. Interlace pinky fingers. Magic.