Confidence – The State of Being Certain

Emma writes: What women want: confidence. Hands down the number one thing a woman is looking for in a man is confidence. Not to be confused with arrogance or cockiness, confidence is defined by Webster as “the quality or state of being certain.” And the secondary classification is “the feeling or belief that one can rely on someone or something.” … Read More

Sharing Vs Oversharing – First Date Fodder

Authenticity is a beautiful thing – especially in men. Women in general are attracted to men who are themselves. No one likes a sugar coater, liar, or hider. Tell us what gets you out of bed in the morning. Revel in your passions. We want to know about you, or we wouldn’t have said yes. Just don’t tell us everything. … Read More

Something Quite Sexy

Before I officially accepted the offer to write for the legendary Neil Strauss’ brainchild Stylelife, I was afraid. I was afraid that it had been too long since I’d written about relationships to powerfully share. I was afraid that what I had to say   would be idiotic and ill-received. I worried about coming off too bossy, too instructional, too girly, … Read More

Important Announcement from Style

It looks like there are STILL more people trying to figure out how Ingrid did the HEAT READING in the BlackOps video than people we sent the email to. I’ve realized that things aren’t going to calm down any time soon.(Going to post some of my favorite responses on the blog!) In fact the viral spread of this video may … Read More

Get Ready for 2013

As 2012 comes to a close, you have the perfect opportunity to reflect on your past year and set goals for the one to come. Looking back over the year, think about what went well for you? What are some areas you would like to improve? Looking forward to 2013, what are some things you’d like to achieve or accomplish? … Read More

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Radical immersion

A number of writers, reality show participants, journalists, and general self-experimenters seem to be making radical immersions into a particular community or task. This guy decides to wear nothing but denim for the next twelve months. That guy plans to eat nothing but broccoli for a year. And so forth. These immersive transformations can be very illuminating even for people … Read More