Most of the guys we talk to tell us that they’re not looking for one-night stands or hookup buddies. You’ve been there, you’ve done that and you’re over it. What you’re really looking for is a woman that you can make a connection with. However, just wanting isn’t enough to make it happen. In fact, the same men who … Read More
Avoid These 4 Mindsets to Improve Your Social Success
You know how there is that break-up cliche that says, “It’s not you, it’s me”? Most of the time, that’s nonsense. But in some instances with dating, the problem is, indeed you. If you’re not getting the social results you want, examine your mindset and attitudes to see if you’re falling into any of these 4 negative frames of references. … Read More
Debate: Is it a Good Idea to Delete Your Dating Apps?
Our recent article detailing 4 Reasons to Delete Your Dating Apps generated a huge amount of email commentary. Some readers agreed with the advice. Others, not so much. Healthy, constructive debate is always a good thing at Stylelife. During our upcoming seduction master class, Style will tell students over and over again that we’re not concerned with dogma, with marking … Read More
4 Reasons to Delete Your Dating App
Technology is Great, But an Ineffective Way to Meet Women Emma writes… In general, I think dating apps are an impersonal, pointless waste of time. I was recently at a concert with a friend. I looked over to see if she was enjoying the show, and she was on Tinder scrolling through a list of guys so quickly I couldn’t … Read More
Live in a Dump? It Doesn't Have to Hinder Your Social Life
My Job, Car, & Home All Suck: How to Be Proud, High Value, and Attract Women, Even When Times are Tough Part 3 of a 3 Installment Series A lot of people blame their lack of social success on some aspect of their life. In this series, we’ve covered all the bases. In our first installment, we looked at what … Read More
Why a POS Car is Not Stopping You from Meeting Women
My Job, Car, & Home All Suck: How to be Proud, High Value, and Attract Women, Even When Times are Tough Part 2 of a 3 Installment Series In our first article, on Monday, we examined how even the most seemingly uncool, un-seductive job is not truly a hinderance when it comes to social success. In today’s installment, The Sneak … Read More
How To Attract Women When Times Are Tough
You’ve felt this way, I guarantee it. Unless you were born into a super-wealthy, old-money family, at some point or another, you felt your life hindered your chance at meeting, attracting, and getting women. “My car is a piece of shit! How am I supposed to take a girl on a date in this?” you have wondered. “I work in … Read More
Why Humor Isn't Necessarily What Women Want
Every interview with women says the same thing. “What do you want in a man?” the reporter asks. “A sense of humor,” the woman replies. It’s simply become the default answer in our culture. According to a 2013 Match.com research that was published on ABC News, 58% of women rated “a sense of humor/makes me laugh” as a must have … Read More
Decipher Her Dress Code
How Her Outfit Reveals Her Secret Desires Women’s clothing choices are calculated for maximum impact. A woman will spend anywhere between one and three hours getting ready for a date, most of that time is spent trying on the contents of her closet. Just like you carefully plan your outfit for a job interview to win over an employer, a … Read More
How Halloween Helps You Avoid Approach Anxiety
You know what it’s like… Standing there, looking at a woman across the bar that you’d like to meet. But you’re locked in place, unable to move. You feel like everyone in the bar will come to a complete halt. A hush will fall over the venue. A single spotlight will shine down on you. And they will all watch, … Read More
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