Sticking points are places in your game where you’re having trouble. It might be the opener, going for the kiss, or getting a date to stick instead of flake. Whatever yours is, you can bust it. These tips will guide your way: 1. Recognize that most of the time the answer is just more practice. A lot of guys only … Read More
The Seductive Checklist
There are a number of actions you can do to become more seductive. These tips are based on a lesson plan called “Non-Interactive Attraction Game” that The Sneak developed for our bootcamps (such as the events coming up in San Francisco, Los Angeles, and others. These things make you more attractive and they happen before you even interact with a … Read More
How to Plan Spontaneity: Travel and Seductive Adventures
I particularly love traveling with my girlfriend. In my experience, it’s one of the best ways to build a romance with someone you’re dating. The key to seductive travel is to appear spontaneous, but that’s only possible if you put in some preparation. Does that seem contradictory? Preparation and spontaneity might seem like opposites. It’s not. Think about musicians… They … Read More
Scared She's Gonna Cheat? Here's How to Keep Her Interest
First off: a warning. This isn’t one of those cheesy warnings at the top of an article that’s meant to grab your attention. This one is to be taken with the utmost sincerity and importance. If the subject of this article is something you fear, then we’ve revealed one of your insecurities. It’s fine, don’t freak out on me, let’s … Read More
Why Writing is a Key to Getting Women (Strange, but True)
Field reports are one of the best tools you can use to improve at seduction. If you’re unfamiliar, field reports are journal-like entries that a student writes after each night out in the field. Generally, they’re posted on a forum, like Stylelife’s Elite Forum, or kept in private journals. Follow these few tips to maximize the benefits of writing field … Read More
Learn Evolve's Dungeons & Dragons Routine
Attract Women While Slaying Dragons This one is for the guys that want to take their nerdiness to the next level. Here’s how I talk about Dungeons & Dragons and incorporate it into my seductions. As you may or may not know, The Sneak and I have a deep seeded love for role-playing games. Dungeons & Dragons* in particular. We’ve … Read More
2 Valentine's Day Seduction Tips and a Bootcamp Sale
Valentine’s Day is coming up this weekend. Though every day is a great day to practice your seduction skills, Valentine’s Day is a particularly great one. So great, that we decided to do a bootcamp in San Francisco over Valentine’s Day weekend. If you haven’t attended one, I suggest you do, because they’re fantastic. We’re also having a Valentine’s day … Read More
Root and Deliver
A Quick Way to Overhaul Your Openers Aspiring social artists are often consumed by the idea of collecting openers. People want day game openers, night game openers, club open- ers, bar openers, lounge openers, concert open- ers, and just about any other type of opener ever conceived. The truth is you don’t need a book full of openers for every … Read More
What to Do After the Stylelife Challenge Ends
On Sunday, January 19, 2014, people all over the world celebrated “International Stylelife Date Day.” This exciting day was the successful culmination of the Stylelife Challenge 2014 “Get a Date in 14 Days” effort. Experienced veterans of the social arts and newbies alike participated in the Challenge, an intensive, two-week learning process with missions, videos, and on-the-phone coaching, all provided … Read More
How Nerd Hobbies Can Help Attract Women
Featured on today’s main page over at Salon, an article entitled “All I needed to know about life I learned from ‘Dungeons & Dragons’” brought about a ton of smiles at the Stylelife office. In this piece, Ethan Gilsdorf recounts the life lessons he absorbed while slaying beasts and casting spells in the game. And that very night, longtime Stylelife … Read More