6 Ways to Increase Comfort and Acceptance in the People You Meet If you can’t make people comfortable to be around you, you’re not going to attract women and you’re not going to make friends. Making people comfortable in your presence is the first step toward the process of attraction, whether you’re talking to the most beautiful girl at the … Read More
Peacocking Versus Being Fashionable
Peacock is a verb defined as, “to dress in loud clothing or with flashy accoutrements in order to get attention from women.” This concept excites novice social artists who have in the past repressed the desire to stand out. The travesty is that some social artists never make the transition from peacock to a more inner-defined style. The wearing of … Read More
Proving Popular: The Scoop on Social Proof and Value
Meeting women is a game of value. The more value you can acquire the easier the game becomes. Value can come in a number of different forms, such as money, worldliness, status, and many more. One form of value called social proof is gained from the people you know and the crowd that surrounds you. To understand social proof, imagine … Read More
Stylelife Girl: Afton
This time around, we sent The Sneak to chat with Afton, a recent college graduate with an emphasis in textile design. As her day job, she works as a street fundraiser. So while you stress over walking up to a woman and saying hello, she’s stressing about walking up to a woman, saying hello, and actually getting a credit … Read More
Bust Through Your Calibration Sticking Point: A Fun Exercise
Calibration is a major sticking point for many people. It can be a real challenge because it’s something that you’re always doing while in the field. You never calibrate for a moment, and then forget all about it while you focus on something else. It’s like a basketball player who needs to always be aware of the ball, whether he’s … Read More
The Most Comprehensive List of Sticking Points: Is Your Dating Problem on Here?
The Stylelife coaching team recently worked with our student body to conduct a thorough examination of the sticking points that hold people back in the field. If you’re new to the area of social artistry, a “sticking point” is a hurdle or obstacle, that you just can’t seem to move beyond. Everyone has one, even the best pickup artists in … Read More
The Simplest Thing You Can Do to Improve Your Game
You walk by the beautiful women, turn your head and over your shoulder, you ask their opinion. You tell them you can’t stay long and that you only need to ask them because you’re in an argument with your friends. Your body language is perfect. You’re standing correctly you turn at just the right time and you’re voice is loud … Read More
Do PUA Techniques Really Work? Science has the answer.
Now and then we get emails from guys who start reading about PUAs and seduction. They look at the concepts of openers, DHVs and other PUA techniques with a bit of skepticism. “Does this stuff really work? I mean … seriously?” Science proves it does. Research conducted by scholars at the University of Oxford and Zagreb was published in the … Read More
Approaching Women During Winter Weather
It’s that time again when the snow starts falling, the wind starts blowing, and the chill starts creeping in. Winter time is quickly swinging by but this doesn’t mean that your endless nights of social fun must end. In fact the winter season is a great time to go out and meet your next significant other. You will find a … Read More
Genuine Interest Combats Approach Anxiety
A lot of men feel the negative emotions associated with Approach Anxiety crop up when they see a woman who catches their eye. Quite often, those negative feelings are related to the inordinate amount of pressure the man puts on the situation. You might do something similar to this: “I have to make a good impression or she’s going to … Read More