You know what it’s like… Standing there, looking at a woman across the bar that you’d like to meet. But you’re locked in place, unable to move. You feel like everyone in the bar will come to a complete halt. A hush will fall over the venue. A single spotlight will shine down on you. And they will all watch, … Read More
5 Simple Ways to Bust Through Approach Anxiety
One of the biggest obstacles that every social artist encounters is Approach Anxiety. Every man fears the social and sexual humiliation of being blown out, plus it is evolutionarily hardwired into our systems from our history as a tribal society. Over the generations, we have learned to shield ourselves, to protect ourselves from harm. As a result, we don’t like … Read More
Stay One Step Ahead
As soon as you approach a woman or group of people you don’t know, they think two things: 1) What does he want? 2) How long is he going to stay here? If you can satisfactorily answer both of these questions, you can avoid the sting of rejection. If not, you will hear the words that are the anathema of … Read More
Thundering Over Loud Club Music
The pounding of club music can be a huge challenge for most guys who are new to the game. Many people find themselves having trouble communicating over the loud, repetitive sounds of the night club. If you’re not used to the noise it can be hard to think, let alone communicate! This exercise is an easy way for any guy … Read More
Dealing with Mixed Sets
As students of seduction, we’ve all had to approach women in groups with men. And, for many students, this is a place where anxiety pops up. A few questions might pop into your head: • Is that my target’s boyfriend? • What if the guy is a dick and makes me look bad? • What if the guy is protective … Read More
Field Reports: Micro-stepping
In an email to the list (you are signed up, right?), I asked you to send in field reports on how micro-stepping had helped with Approach Anxiety. You responded, and here are some excerpts: I’d encourage you to log onto the Forums if you need help, or can offer assistance to your fellow members. —————————————————- Went out last Friday, to … Read More
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