My Job, Car, & Home All Suck:
How to Be Proud, High Value, and Attract Women, Even When Times are Tough
Part 3 of a 3 Installment Series
A lot of people blame their lack of social success on some aspect of their life. In this series, we’ve covered all the bases. In our first installment, we looked at what to do if you’re embarrassed by your job. In our second installment, we exploded the myth that a piece of junk car holds you back in socializing. In this conclusion, The Sneak explains why your living condition does not have any impact on your success with women.
If You Think Your Home Sucks
First off, why don’t you do something about it? Fixing a home up doesn’t have to be expensive. Try being creative. There are plenty of resources out there on how to “pimp your pad.” Many cost little or nothing at all. Here’s an extreme example from my life on how this could be done…
At one point I lived in a small studio apartment. It was barely furnished. The bed was the only place to sit. There was no electricity in this place. People often remarked, “You know you could never bring a woman back here right?” Well, they were wrong.
Turns out, candlelight isn’t a turnoff, it’s romantic. Shocker. With no television or even radio or anything like that, there was no option but to focus on each other. Turns out, embracing the now and being present isn’t a turnoff either.
Sure my home was unusual, but being the exception is a principle of being seductive. It certainly spoke volumes about my personality and easily led into stories about simplicity and minimalism.
Series Grand Conclusion
It’s all a matter of perspective. If you think something in your life sucks, it sucks. If you let someone else convince you it sucks, it sucks. If you think it’s fun and exciting, then it becomes fun and exciting. If you have stories to share that show where your passion comes from, you may even be able to shift someone else’s perspective on the situation. Moments ago did you think a studio apartment with no electricity could be cool? Do you think it can be cool now? If you can change someone else’s perspective through storytelling that is a very seductive move.
Have fun out there. Go live life and love it!
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