For a dedicated pickup artist, there is no technology that can replace face time with a woman. As a rule of thumb if you are face-to-face with a woman you never part in favor of a Day 2, phone call, text message, email, snail mail, or with plans to meet in your favorite MMORPG (in that order of bad ideas.)
In short you always want face time, and you always want it now until you have gotten where you wanted to get to with the woman. Thus, it should be no shock to that phone game should only be used as a stepping-stone and not as a destination. With this in mind please ingrain the uses of the phone in terms of game into your brain.
What to Use the Phone For:
Long Distance Relationships
If you meet a girl on vacation, online, or through some other distance medium, you must keep your connection strong. This will involve talking to her often enough to remind her exactly how good it is to be with you. She needs attention. Maintain rapport and attraction. Most important have a strategy for seeing her ASAP.
Setting Up a Day 2
If you must part with a woman and have not made plans for a Day 2. Although this course of action is not the most desired, you will need to set up a Day 2. Pick up the phone, recall a positive state and invite her on a fun date she can’t refuse.
After a Day 2
Call her to tell her what a great time you had. If you haven’t made plans for your next date (which you should have already done while in her presence) go ahead and make them now.
Managing Multiple Long-Term Relationships (MLTR)
All of your ladies need attention. Spend a few minutes each day either making plans or maintaining rapport with each of them.
Managing Networks
Every once in a while, all your contacts need a call or they are going to disappear. Keep them open for favors and parties. A short conversation once a week will suffice.
Vacations
If you are seeing a woman and she goes on vacation, treat her like a long distance relationship. Do not bother try to control her and above all, do not act jealous. Just remind her what a magnificent man she has waiting at home. Make her look forward to the present waiting for her when she returns. And you are the present.
What Not to Use the Phone For:
Long Conversations
Unless you are talking dirty to each other, then long phone conversations will head you towards friend-zone. Friends chat on the phone. Lovers see each other in real life.
Day 2s
Day 2s should be made in real life. You are only making it harder on yourself by waiting until the rapport and attraction has time to cool off.
Anything You Don’t Have the Guts to Say Face to Face
If you want to say something that is difficult to express, you should say it in real life. It builds character and shows that you are a real man.
Answering While on a Date
Answering your phone while out on a date with a woman is just plain rude. So don’t do it. Unless you’re a surgeon who’s on call. In that case, please do answer the phone!
These are your standard terms and conditions for using your phone. Please memorize and adhere to these rules.
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