Time to get your female attraction skills LEVELED UP!
After opening the next hurdle is…learning how to DEMONSTRATE HIGHER VALUE (abbreviated DHV) to get HER interested.
But before you can use DHV routines you need to know when to use them. And that isn’t easy, as you might have experienced.
Does this pick up conversation sound like a familiar situation? (notice where the AMATEUR PUA’s game derails):
AMATEUR PUA: “I’ve got a quick question, my friend over there needs help. He just got two adorable puppies and he wants to name them after a 90’s hip-hop duo like Salt-n-Peppa or Milli Vanilli. What do you think he should name his cute little pups?”
WOMEN: “Oh, that’s fun you could call them…”
AMATEUR PUA: “Oh, cool those are really good names for the puppies. Do you have pets?”
WOMEN: “Yeah we have cats…”
AMATEUR PUA: “Nice, I like cats…um…What are your names?”
WOMEN: “I’m ________ and this is _______.”
AMATEUR PUA: “Where are you from?”
WOMEN: (getting bored) “We’re from here.”
AMATEUR PUA: “Oh, nice. What do you do for work?”
WOMEN: (zoning out, looking around) “We work for…”
AMATEUR PUA: “OK…um…My friends puppies are really cute.”
WOMEN: (not really listening anymore) “Oh yeah.”
AMATEUR PUA: (feeling really awkward) “OK, I’m going back to my friend now.”
WOMEN: “OK, bye.”
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Disappointing…
The AMATEUR PUA’s first step was correct! He used a proven PUA OPENER when he approached. But the conversational momentum of an opener doesn’t last forever. The AMATEUR PUA lingered on it too long and had no follow up material.
Before the momentum of the opener is lost it’s the job of the PUA to steer the conversation towards building attraction. The correct PUA step after the opener is to DEMONSTRATE HIGHER VALUE. If performed correctly the first DHV will get the pro PUA to “THE HOOK POINT,” the moment when a group of women enjoy the presence of the PUA so much that they beg him not to leave!
More on reaching that all important HOOK POINT in my next email, look out for it this Thursday.
Your e-wingman,
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