Making the Transition

How to Establish a Strong Foundation for Your Relatinship It was a beautiful moment, the highlight of a great year, when she looked at me and said “Yes, I would love to be your girlfriend.” It was also a terrifying moment. As a social artist who had been immersed in the thrill of the chase and the grip of uncertainty … Read More

Date Losing Energy? Employ The Resuscitation Routine

During the course of a date, you may run out of things to say. You may feel your attention begin to wane and your mind wander. Or worse, you may notice your date going through these things. Even if you’re really interested in the woman and you’re really on your game, it can happen. You can employ the Resuscitation Routine … Read More

Peacocking Versus Being Fashionable

Peacock is a verb defined as, “to dress in loud clothing or with flashy accoutrements in order to get attention from women.” This concept excites novice social artists who have in the past repressed the desire to stand out. The travesty is that some social artists never make the transition from peacock to a more inner-defined style. The wearing of … Read More

Live in a Dump? It Doesn't Have to Hinder Your Social Life

My Job, Car, & Home All Suck: How to Be Proud, High Value, and Attract Women, Even When Times are Tough Part 3 of a 3 Installment Series A lot of people blame their lack of social success on some aspect of their life. In this series, we’ve covered all the bases. In our first installment, we looked at what … Read More

Why a POS Car is Not Stopping You from Meeting Women

My Job, Car, & Home All Suck: How to be Proud, High Value, and Attract Women, Even When Times are Tough‏ Part 2 of a 3 Installment Series In our first article, on Monday, we examined how even the most seemingly uncool, un-seductive job is not truly a hinderance when it comes to social success. In today’s installment, The Sneak … Read More

How To Attract Women When Times Are Tough

You’ve felt this way, I guarantee it. Unless you were born into a super-wealthy, old-money family, at some point or another, you felt your life hindered your chance at meeting, attracting, and getting women. “My car is a piece of shit! How am I supposed to take a girl on a date in this?” you have wondered. “I work in … Read More

How to Make the Most of Learning from a PUA

How to Turbo Charge Your Transformation at the Seduction Master Class One of the most effective methods for learning to pick up women, going all the way back to the earliest days of the seduction community has always been the conference. PUA conferences can be effective and over the course of our existence, hundreds of men (and a number of women … Read More

Stepping Up in Class

How to Date Out of Your League Look, I’m not going to sugar coat this… People say, “There is no such thing as leagues, that’s just negative thinking, you can get any girl!” I respectfully disagree. If I could date anyone it would be, supermodel, Kate Upton. The problem is that she is out of my league, but I’m working … Read More

Why Writing is a Key to Getting Women (Strange, but True)

Field reports are one of the best tools you can use to improve at seduction. If you’re unfamiliar, field reports are journal-like entries that a student writes after each night out in the field. Generally, they’re posted on a forum, like Stylelife’s Elite Forum, or kept in private journals. Follow these few tips to maximize the benefits of writing field … Read More

Rescuing Canned Material

The Old Standbys are Successful for a Reason It’s the same old story, but I don’t want to be rude. So I let the guy continue. “I don’t wanna use canned material,” he says. Then he trots out the usual justifications. It just doesn’t feel right. It’s not his style. It won’t work because it won’t be congruent. He wants … Read More