Debate: Is it a Good Idea to Delete Your Dating Apps?

Our recent article detailing 4 Reasons to Delete Your Dating Apps generated a huge amount of email commentary. Some readers agreed with the advice. Others, not so much. Healthy, constructive debate is always a good thing at Stylelife. During our upcoming seduction master class, Style will tell students over and over again that we’re not concerned with dogma, with marking … Read More

3 Tips for Busting Sticking Points

Sticking points are places in your game where you’re having trouble. It might be the opener, going for the kiss, or getting a date to stick instead of flake. Whatever yours is, you can bust it. These tips will guide your way: 1. Recognize that most of the time the answer is just more practice. A lot of guys only … Read More

The Seductive Checklist

There are a number of actions you can do to become more seductive. These tips are based on a lesson plan called “Non-Interactive Attraction Game” that The Sneak developed for our bootcamps (such as the events coming up in San Francisco, Los Angeles, and others. These things make you more attractive and they happen before you even interact with a … Read More

How to Get to Know a Woman Better: Themes for Conversational Flexibility

Some successful social artists prefer to think more in terms of “themes” than routines as that provides a tremendous amount of conversational flexibility. Thing is, many guys talk about the wrong themes. So, let’s look at how to lead her into a conversation about relationships – an all-time favorite female topic. Let’s say you’re talking fluff and you want to … Read More

How to Make People Comfortable, Part 2

If you read our previous post on making people comfortable, you saw a lot of very simple ways that you can instantly make people — men, women, whoever — comfortable around you. Hopefully you tried them the next time you were socializing. That’s good. Even guys who’ve been around the block a few times can find little things that they’re … Read More

How to Make People Comfortable, Part 1

6 Ways to Increase Comfort and Acceptance in the People You Meet If you can’t make people comfortable to be around you, you’re not going to attract women and you’re not going to make friends. Making people comfortable in your presence is the first step toward the process of attraction, whether you’re talking to the most beautiful girl at the … Read More

Accessorize to Impress Her Eyes

When developing your personal sense of style and fashion, you should not overlook the value of accessories. These are the last items you should be putting on when dressing yourself, accessories. My strict interpretations of accessories for the purpose of this article will be any item that goes on your wrist, neck, fingers or waist… I’m going to assume that … Read More

Peacocking Versus Being Fashionable

Peacock is a verb defined as, “to dress in loud clothing or with flashy accoutrements in order to get attention from women.” This concept excites novice social artists who have in the past repressed the desire to stand out. The travesty is that some social artists never make the transition from peacock to a more inner-defined style. The wearing of … Read More

Live in a Dump? It Doesn't Have to Hinder Your Social Life

My Job, Car, & Home All Suck: How to Be Proud, High Value, and Attract Women, Even When Times are Tough Part 3 of a 3 Installment Series A lot of people blame their lack of social success on some aspect of their life. In this series, we’ve covered all the bases. In our first installment, we looked at what … Read More

Why a POS Car is Not Stopping You from Meeting Women

My Job, Car, & Home All Suck: How to be Proud, High Value, and Attract Women, Even When Times are Tough‏ Part 2 of a 3 Installment Series In our first article, on Monday, we examined how even the most seemingly uncool, un-seductive job is not truly a hinderance when it comes to social success. In today’s installment, The Sneak … Read More